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Studies show that there are many boys who have gotten sexually abused, and boys tend to get abused more than females; and that ones abused don't tell and are willing to keep the secret until death.
How many of you are willing to share if you were abused. If you do, can you share this:
1.) Abused by an unknown person; friend; or family member.
2.) You haven't told anyone and never will.
3.) Received counseling.
4.) Blame yourself.
5.) Believe that this could be the reason of why you love guys.
6.) Despite the incident, you forgave.
7.) You knew that you were the only one; or other boys were involved.
8.) I live in denial--who; what; where; when--what are you talking about...
9.) No need to make anyone else hurt--I'll take it to my grave.
10.) I enjoyed so much the feeling that it wasn't abused at all.
I know this list is long, but it's just as a reference to what happen, if you decide to share. You don;t need to follow the list, but can describe your experience as you feel most comfortable.

Thanks.

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12 years ago

Okay; the purpose of this blog is for this reason: men who have been abused will never tell anyone, and so this will be a way for men to discuss their misfortune and feel intricately better because even though they can discuss it here, they will still remain unanimous--and I believe that this is something that everyone wants.

Studies show that there are many boys who have gotten sexually abused, and boys tend to get abused more than females; and that ones abused don't tell and are willing to keep the secret until death.
How many of you are willing to share if you were abused. If you do, can you share this:
1.) Abused by an unknown person; friend; or family member.
2.) You haven't told anyone and never will.
3.) Received counseling.
4.) Blame yourself.
5.) Believe that this could be the reason of why you love guys.
6.) Despite the incident, you forgave.
7.) You knew that you were the only one; or other boys were involved.
8.) I live in denial--who; what; where; when--what are you talking about...
9.) No need to make anyone else hurt--I'll take it to my grave.
10.) I enjoyed so much the feeling that it wasn't abused at all.
I know this list is long, but it's just as a reference to what happen, if you decide to share. You don;t need to follow the list, but can describe your experience as you feel most comfortable.

THE GOAL IS FOR ABUSED MEN TO START LETTING THE HEAVY LOAD OF SEXUAL ABUSED OFF THEIR BACK; BY SHARING THE MISFORTUNE WITH OTHER MEN WHO HAVE EXPERIENCE THE SAME OR SIMILAR EVENTS OF ABUSE, THE LOAD OF PAIN; GRIEF; DOUBT; SHAME; DISTRUST; TEARS; AND SO FORTH, CARRIED ON THEIR BACK, WITHOUT DOUBT CAN BE RELEASED.

Thanks!!!

12 years ago

Okay; the purpose is that men who have been abused will never tell anyone, and so this is a way of them feeling better because even though they are talking about it, they will still remain unanimous.

12 years ago

You might want to say what you are going to do with the result of your research little dude... I can see that few people are viewing, but no one will reply as they don't see the point of it... put your goal and what you are doing this research for... this might help to have some people answering to your question.