HardGrandPa's Blogs

In the "real" world I'm having a fling with a sexy 19yo. I met him in May of this year. He is a "screamo" and into bands like Alesana. He has brought me back from the brink of the abyss. He said my personality and honesty were what he found attractive.

Scotty96 is so right on this topic, age, race anything should not a be a reason to hate someone it should be personality and attitude is more important to anything. To add to that most of the really nice people on this site are over 50 and people should not put them down because of age. The older guys are here to help us younger guys and the help really does help. Trust me on that. Not saying that the younger guys are not nice they are too but this community does need older guys for advice and experience since you and me and everyone here will be over 50 some day and then we will be called the old fart and will hurt you when the time comes.

yo. andy you are on a roll. with mustard, you hot dog.

First - watch out for mike. He'll run you down with his duce coupe hoveround. He really can't thinkback that far any way. There is no need to use age as a barrier or buffer. Friendship is what I'm talking about. Why should sexual attraction even come up along with age all the time. This road is well travel and needs to be repaved from all the recent traffic. Mike1946 is a GOOD Friend and I always stand behind him (except when he farts - LOUD and that SMELL) ALL are welcome here. I know Mike, Andy - Back to the woodshed, again.

nice comments. when i was 22-25 (before i came out)i went to a nite club not far from my house on the weekend. atleast half the time i got bored. i went a few doors down to a bar that had people 35-60 there. i usually had more fun there drinkin with them. this conversation reminded me of that.

I feel like I am open to older guys, I mean this seriously, I really don't care about things like age, race, religion or so on, a very wise friend of mine told me there is only two kinds of people, good ones and bad and I agree! I don't consider myself to be on this site looking for a date, I really don't believe in cyber dating, for me you need to be able to touch a date, I am mostly looking for gay friends to talk to, something I am missing in my day to day real world. That does not mean I don't develop feelings with on-line people I really do. I actually have developed a significant bond with a member here and since he will probably read this and know who I am talking about I say with NO offense intended at all, but he is older than my father. There is no doubt people here who are only about sex and if you don't turn them on they want nothing to do with you but I think they are probably the minority and that is certainly NOT me! You rightly said, old guys were all once young and that is very true, but think back, when you were young didn't you do some irrational things and make plenty of mistakes because you didn't know better? Me, well I want to know what you guys have to say since you have been there and done that. My conversations with my friend have been entertaining, enlightening, educational and most importantly caused me to think about life in a different light and helped me discover a new way of looking at things and more of that would be welcomed with very open arms.

I will wade into the pool again. I would agree that most of the young men on here are interested in their own age groups. And frankly, this isn't called the Young for the Old and Restless web site. That being said, phallussy says it well. About the flirting and the friendships. I would have to disagree with him a little about when I was in my late teens....there was nothing like a hot built older guy to make my motor shift into high...or reverse as the need might be....

I think anybody any age can be friends and there is never any reason to be mean. About sex attraction, i dont get it why so many people are always talking about age or race or whatever. Im not saying what a guy looks like doesnt matter at all to me, but seriously to me the sexiest thing about a guy is his personality and attitude.

Welcome to GBT! Older guys are very much accepted by the younger guys here....but as a friend, not generally as a sexual partner. I have many young friends here and I love them all. There are so many terrific guys here....of all ages. I'm sure there are even some younger ones who are sexually interested in older guys too...and if they are they will come to u. I respect all of my young friends here so much that I wouldn't hit on them and they trust me enough not to. Sure....there is always a little flurting between us all sometimes, but it's all in good fun. Would I like to go to bed with a young guy? DUH! But think about it Gramps.....when u were in ur 20's did u want to go to bed with a 60yo? I think not. I didn't....and it didn't matter how handsome, long, or hard they were! lol. There u have it. So just kick back and make some friends, and once again, welcome to our community. :)

I agree with uainindia...

sorry...yer too young for me..

I've been a member here for a couple of years. I find that most of the comments from younger guys in the "Turn Ons" and "Turn Offs" sections are focused on what they are looking for, or not looking for, in a sexual partner. Being older, I realize that most, but not all, younger guys prefer guys around their own age. However, I still have made quite a few friends here, many of them who qualify still as 'younger'. They have learned I am not here to hit on them, and that having 'been around the block' so many more times than they have, that I sometimes have some good advice to share. I'm not expecting any of the younger guys to hit on me, so I am not disappointed when they don't.