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I dont think u shuld lie to peeps if ya do u will regret it cause wht they will hold agist u is the lie - not that u r a poofy girly man homosexual haha

wow new and more drama tonight, cant wait for tomorrows episode of the straightgayboy saga

How ready are you to coming out? - regardless of the answer, I would start preparing myself - either to lie straight to their faces (no pun intended :P) or come out, your gonna have to do it sometime, and it will probably make you much happier in the long run. although im not out yet so probably shouldnt be giving advice ;)

The both of us begged him not to say anything and after a while he told us he woudlnt....he told us he doesnt mind and that if were happy then hes happy its just the shock of catching us kissing when wev been friends for at least 10 years! panic over you would think.....i was out tonight bringin my little brother trick or treating and i bumped into all of my friends and i was chatting to them but something seemed different it was as if they knew! James is beside me right now (cos i told him im on dis and telling people about us but using different names) the both of us want to know....what can we do if people find outt? like what should we do???????????????please help

wow straightgayboy drama does seem to follow you around, I met my BFat school and after coming out to our parents who caught us kissing we came out to our friends at school. As expected our true friends are still our friends now after 5 years and the ones that had problems with it have moved on and so have we. I can honestly say for us coming out was the best thing that ever happened no more hiding our feelings or who we are.

thanks for writen back to me guys! i was sad and deppressed all day and felt like shit when my bedroom door opened and he walked in. he told me that hes sorry and that he didnt no what to do, he was scared incase iif he didnt meet her then people would start to wonder. he sat down beside me on the bed and kissed me on the cheek and for the first time in my life (out of maybe 5 girls that iv been with nobody has ever said this to me....well only my mom)....He said to me ''i love you''....my heart melted, like it was the most geniune 100% belivable thing anyone has ever said to me. i started to cry (and i dont cry much) but he started to hug me and kiss me again. we spent about 20mins locked inside each others arms, when my door opened and our mate james walked in and my heart stopped beating. he stopped dead in the door way looking at us, too shocked to say anything and turned around to leave the house when we ran after him and begged him to come back up to the room to talk it out

Biggest problem I see and hear in a lot of relationships is open honesty. You have to tell each other how you feel about things, what do you expect from him, what does he expect from you? Dont assume because two people are in love they know what the other person wants or needs. Bit like the person that leaves the top of the toothpaste off for the past 3 years, then all of a sudden it becomes a huge issue where as if from the start he had been told hey I would really appreciate you putting the lid on the toothpaste all could have been avoided. Tell your friend how it made you feel set some boundaries that each of you respect when it comes to your relationship. You always refer to him as your best friend, you have both got to decide are you friends or are you both looking for the same relationship? And good luck, good relationships dont just happen they need honesty, mutual respect and a lot of hard work and understanding.

Does he have a nice ass?

Hang tight friend but you really need to have a sit down talk with him, about his action in front off you and how it broke your heart, a true friend would /will understand what you are saying. But you have to be honest that is the most important think not mad .

dont get mad at him just repect that nobody knows you or your friend are gay, so of course girls are going to try and hit on him, so just play along, i know its hard but at the end of the day im shaw he loves you more than any girl and you haft to show him as well, a sweet long kiss will do the trick buddy:)

don't let it break you down. Everyone tries to live there lives the best they can. He should have shown you more respect but he is most likely just as confused as you. stay strong and be your own man

Dont feel to bad bout it Tom HUGS it happens with some dudes cause they are a bit weak and feeble. Ya can either trasure the memories of the two days - or you can reveal all and start a big shitstorm (lest you will feel better) kinda up to you babe.