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Stop having set “qualifications” for a boyfriend.

Blog Last Activity 11 years ago 444 views 5 comments
Stop having set “qualifications” for a boyfriend. Being a lover is not a fucking job, and you’re not hiring a fucking employee. and yes, they will make mistakes. Yes, they will be different from what you expected. They’re human, and they have no fucking clue what they’re doing. But they love you, and they love every minute of you. So please, give them a chance.

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BackStreetBoy
BackStreetBoy
11 years ago

What happened to co-operation? I think it should work also in this case. "Boyfriends" are not a drove. We're all individuals and two of them -if lucky and succesful- form a couple where both of them have a chance. To love each other, in peace and war.

11 years ago

If you point your finger at someone because of their faults, just remember you have 3 more pointing right back at you. No one is perfect, Charlie and I know that :) He is my perfect partner, good or bad.

Davey1965
Davey1965
11 years ago

GOOD ON YOU COLE, U read my mind.If you paint a picture ,in yr mind of the perfect boyfriend then u could be 50 before you find him.Dont give up on him if he makes a mistake.If hes not the guy you dreamed of every night, dont just leave him and just keep looking,.
Open yr eyes because he could just be the guy for you and he may not hang around if your too judgemental.Sure theres lots of fish in the sea but if you catch the right fish,make sure you give him a good look before you toss him back.

11 years ago

this is like the best blog ive seen yet ty cole :)

11 years ago

The people who make us happy are never the people we'd expect.