I am a 100% disabled veteran for the last 11 yrs. I am very grateful to the man that loves me and has married me. He is 25 years younger than me comes from a family of wealth so it's not like he's after my money which I do not have much of. I would have to say it has not been easy for him or me but then again like any relationship you just have to work it out. There  are a many lonely people out there who are disable . Some are physically or mentally disabled, but if you take the time you get To know someone after a while you see their true soul and not their disability. We'll look at porn I'm this site and see always perfect looking hot guys. The reality of it all is a majority of us do not look is good is the fantasies me like and watch. In the immortal words of Crosby stills Nash and Young" Love the one you're with" in the grass is not always greener or a hotter guy I'm the other side of the hill.

That include dudes who can't stop doin' this? ;-]

I didn't mean it in any derogatory way. Quite the opposite. So sorry for any offence caused to anyone. I am attracted to some disabled guys just in the same way as some people prefer asians or black guys or tall guys or short guys or guys who are younger or older than themselves. Can't explain it. Its just a feeling.

I totaly agree with Dogboy3579..A disabled person is not a guy who waits after his pension and who has a designated place in the parking lot. No, we live our life normally and despite the daily suffering, we work, we produce, we pay our taxes equally and we can be totally independent and autonomous.

That's why I hate this way of dealing with disability with this piteous and depressed look.

With all due respect, this is a rather sick blog and topic. Read the comment by dogboy3579. He tells it like it is...and should be.

Howdy!

... as a disabled person - epilepsy, chronic intractable pain, host of other "complications", i PROMISE you that we need and want the same exact things as EVERYBODY else, but all the world sees first is that symbol on the license or the cane or whatever...

We Are People First, We Are Not Our Condition

... this was nothing we chose... so... Yeah - try to look beyond the symbols and signs you have been conditioned to see as all that we are and look to what we can be; great and dedicated friends, companions, lovers even... just say hello... we rarely bite.

Peaxe,

DogBoy out

I have been with a midget once and it was a lot of fun compact body smooth and small enough to lift and man handle but with a full size penis