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Gee whizz... I've not done it for that long, I may need oil to get it working again! hahahahahaaaa

Wow! Thank you so much SwiftJohn for the information! I know I might have asked some things in the past...and I might again in the future...but it is good to review and you might learn something new in the process! You rock!

Yes, the anal sphincter returns to its normal state of tension and tightness after sex. The anal sphincter relaxing and dilating is a reflex action caused by internal stimulation such as from emptying the rectum. The diameter of the stool is determined by the extent of the sphincter's dilation and since most cocks are narrower in diameter than that of your stool, you will have no trouble taking cocks inside you frequently and not risk any loss of elasticity. When I fuck a guy, I'll prepare him for penetration by putting on a rubber surgical glove, lubing up my middle finger and start by massaging the outside of his pucker. As I do this, I can feel the involuntary muscular spasms flexing his sphincter against my finger. Once the spasms abate and I feel his sphincter begin to relax, I'll slide my finger as far as I can into his rectum. I'll then begin to gently massage his insides with particular attention to his prostate. This internal stimulation fools the sphincter into thinking that it's emptying so it begins to relax and dilate, something that I can feel on my finger. I'll then for good measure slide in a second finger to loosen him up some more. Once I have two fingers sliding effortlessly in and out I know that he's ready. I'll quickly lube up my cock, peel off the rubber glove, and then slide my cock in all the way to the hilt and then fuck him long and slow and never does he ever feel even the slightest discomfort upon initial penetration. I always recommend wearing a rubber surgical glove for this for three reasons. The first is to prevent any scratching of his anal tissue from any callouses, hang nails or finger nails. Secondly, your finger will slide in and out more smoothly while performing the internal massage. Lastly, when you're ready to begin the main event, you can peel off the glove inside out, toss it on the floor, and not get anal lube all over your nice clean sheets. I also highly recommend that when you're bottoming, do an enema an hour or two before the play begins. That way there is no mess or odor to detract from the experience. The loss of sphincter elasticity and control typically happens to guys who are into fisting or using monster dildos on themselves which over stretches the sphincter. If you stick to cocks and have your partner prepare you the way I've described, then you should never have any problem with your sphincter losing it's tightness. Your sphincter is your friend so always be kind and gentle with it and it will stay your friend. I hope this is of some help to you and especially to others who are just beginning to explore their homosexuality and the wondrous and magical world that is the giving and receiving of anal pleasures.

If it gets loose, U can do "exercises" to make it pucker again. You just repeatedly "tense" it up. Like any other body muscle, if you exercise it enough, it will tone and shape up. I think it's about the most beautiful muscle the body has. Can be rimmed for hours. Sweet. ;--)))

Yes, it tightens up again after a while. Why not take a cock up your hole and see for yourself.

it's a muscle. use it and it tighens. i just hope 20 years from now i can say the same thing.

The anal sphincter is pretty strong and resilient. Not sure if you'd have problems if you were a bottom for a donkey, but generally speaking after you bottom for another guy, you won't need to wear Depends. The anal sphincter is meant to open up, so you can take a big poop usually.