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@battlefield ANYONE who has not been diagnosed with ED ..SHOULD NEVER use the meds or injections...to do so can harm your beloved organ and capacity to perform...they should ONLY be used by persons needing them, that do have ED.

@batmanseeksrobin. Yes I've researched the injection method and they do have the auto injectors which makes the injecting method a little easier to handle. I thought about going with this, but the upfront expense was still a bit steep for me roughly $100-$150 per vial of med. It works out to about $2-$5 per dose, so it's still better in price than oral meds. I've heard about side effects too. Some newer mixtures of meds are supposed to be better. Most guys would like that four hour erection. The on-line "pharmacies" seem to do quite well with young guys looking for the holy grail of a four hour erection. But unfortunately that prize is the death of your dick, if not treated. :(

although i know all about diabetes, and high blood pressure as well as high cholesterol. i can't see myself injecting with a needle into my dick lol. and well like battlefield i can't afford to take the pills either lol. however i guess its good that i am pretty much a bttm and still have sex. and like batman if i got a hardon for 4 hours i would fuck for four hours without a doubt lol.

@battlefield yes right on..als there is another possible help which most men shun from when they hear it...it's called a "caver jet injector". It is yes a device that holds a needle and medication and very quickly you inject to a specific site on your penis. Just a quick prick and boing. man it sure does get a rise out of you and is more site specific than Viagra and Cialis that has many side effects. I used to get bad head aches on them and the pills are way more expensive. I laugh at the commercials..."if you get an erection lasting more than 4 hours go to your emergency dept" lol...if I get one of those, I'm grabbing a fist of $50 bills and heading to the male hooker sroll lmao!

At this point I need a magic pill to really have sex with someone else, which is expensive, $20-$30 per dose, and you can take them only once a day. I have a urologist who can help some, but not enough to keep someone else, especially a younger guy happy. At best I can have enough magic pills for once a week and that depends on money and sample availability. Sometimes I just not going to have them. I have no idea how much things might improve naturally; it may not be too late. In the mean time I can have orgasms and ejaculate, so I can get off alone. But it's frustrating, nevertheless. The most important thing for all men to do is exercise regularly, to avoid diabetes, as much as possible, and high blood pressure. It's a really simple form of preventive medicine, but as one gets older it gets easier to blow off for one reason or another.
If you have a healthy cardiovascular system and your blood sugar is good, then you have prostrate issues that can pop-up, BPH and cancer. Exercise can help prevent these too.

As long as they are at least 18 they are fair game. And much can be said for educating and initiating a newbie into the world of gay sexual pleasure. I feel we have a responsibility to pass down our knowledge to those coming after us. When the opportunity presents itself, I feel an obligation to teach a neophyte all the ins and outs of gay sex so they can be fully functioning gay men throughout their lives. But that's just the kind of person I am.....always thinking about the other guy. Their rectums are also so much tighter and their squeals of delight the moment they achieve full awareness is such sweet music.

What make for a loving relationship for me is when you're with someone who I can appreciate their company and appreciates mine my partner though we are 30 years apart we both have many simular interests like we both like all styles of music we like the same movies we like some of the same video games we like to take long walks on the beach together we like biking in the woods we like to go swimming and we love cuddling together on the sofa watching tv shows we like science nature space etcetera so many interests it would blow your mind you see all men my age aren't fuddy duddys and all boy his age aren't immature this is the problem is most people generalise and when it comes to humans we are the most divers creatures on earth so to generalise with humans is preposterous

i have always dated (or had sex) with guys alot younger then me. and although most have only lasted a year or so. it still was fun. however still hookup with young guys all the time. and yes alot of repeats :) :)

@Battlefield...well stated..as someone who is diabetic and the joy of actual intercourse is no longer possible due to ED...ah ...eeerrr.... for you who don't know what that is...let's put it this way lol....the sap doesn't flow through the old love log any more lol!)so it's more important to have friendship with a younger person..but hey if he wants to get blowed I'm game lol!

I missed out/skipped out on a gay cavorting youth, so dating someone under 30 is definitely about making up for "lost" time, to the extent that that can even be done at this point. But at my age it has gone beyond that, too. It's also about enjoying the company of someone who has a different energy and view of things, and sharing what I've learned. As far as sex goes, that's something he would have to initiate. I don't see myself completely fulfilling the sexual needs of someone much younger, so he would have to jack off A LOT or our time together, as anything but friends, would be short lived. Sex has gotten tedious and unexciting lately, so that is at the very bottom of the list of the things I have to offer.

I don't think younger /older relationships can be stereotyped. many get involved for many different reasons. For me I love guys 18-25 to get together with...this doesn't necessarily mean for sex, but if it happens that is ok too. For me I love the company of a young man at a hockey game, movie , dinner , a walk etc. For me, I think it is because I'm gay and missed out on the whole father /son thing. I just want to hang out. I DON'T want sex with any guys under age. It isn't about power or control or buying their affection..it's a need to be with someone I'd love to relate to as a son figure, and if he has a need for a father figure, perhaps because he never had one that's cool too.. I had one relationship years ago when I was 23 and he was 18, and one 2006-2007 where he was also 18.It was an awesome experience touring together and having someone to snuggle with. hugz paparon xoxo

I once had someone who was half my age confess he had feelings for me. I remember we sat down and talked about it... and at the time he was about to begin college. I was sad, but said that his college studies were more important than thinking of a relationship. All worked out.. he did ok in college and we still remain friends to this day :)

Many of you may feel that young people lack the power to appreciate you. You may even think that he is the typical young, carefree boy who has everything youthful about him. He is just not your type. But, think again! Is it true that he is not your type? Do you really believe that you should choose someone else? Well, why stick to the cliché about young men? Why not try it for yourself if they are fit for you or not. When dating, the last thing to think about is the society. Remember, they really don’t need the thought you are about to spare. Here are some reasons to date a younger guy...
Not Interested in Guys His Age:
Some men, who seem younger, are very interested in guys who are older than them. These mature men attract them more as compared to guys their age or younger. The older guys bring with them experience, a certain maturity and a whole world of taste that these younger guys are interested in. This guy is definitely smarter and mature as compared to guys his age.
You Are Hot To Him:
In that young guy’s eyes, you are a hot man. You may not have the perfect body, like you had when you were young. But, that’s what attracts him to you. The way you know your body makes him want to woo you more.
No Hit And Quit:
When younger guys hit on you, it does not mean they really want sex. It is not for the physical intimacy that they are with you. It is more than that. They know you are mature, you can handle good conversations and they just love being with you. It may not be marriage but it is definitely pure love.
No Age For Him:
Unlike you, this younger guy does not delve into age. He is proud of the fact that you are older than him. He respects you for that but age is no real concern for him when it comes to loving you. He is not hung up on that and he does not live in a world of clichés. Isn’t that good for you?
Lots Of Energy:
When you plan to date younger men, they bring in to your life a lot of energy and enthusiasm. Yes, they bring in loads of optimism too that you might lack in your life. You live a completely different life when you are with them.
Lacks Money Not Ambition:
Many of you may be hesitant about dating younger men. You may think that they are not financially settled as of now. Well, your thoughts are absolutely in the right place. But that’s not all that is there. Many young men have loads of ambition, some have made it big in this world. A lot of them have resources that you can’t dream of and ambitions that you better don’t learn of. So, they are indeed some people to fall for.
Returning To The Old Self:
Remember your days when you were young and carefree. You will return to those times when you date a younger guy. It may seem out of place but you will love it completely.
You Are In Charge
You are the older one. So, obviously you need to take charge of the things. You won’t miss out on being pampered. In fact, you will be pampered more, but you can play the role of the disciplinarian and take charge of the relationship.
Trying To Impress:
The younger guys will try to impress you like hell. You will get more attention than you can fathom with a younger guy. That’s a great advantage, isn’t it?
Pampering Is On:
He will go out of his way to pamper you and make you happy. This will be so romantic and absolutely fantastic.