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Coming out in school

lol101 Blog Last Activity 12 years ago 862 views 4 comments
this is for young peeps

its a hole lot easier to 'come out the closet' whn your in a school, if you tell someone who thn tells a friend thn it makes it alot easier on you rather th u havving to tell thm all yourself. also it opens up who else in the school you could get with, and your more than likley never going to see 3 quarters of the people there ever again anyway.try it, i did whn i was in schoool, and evrythin worked out gr8 :)

anyone else think the same???

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manu101
manu101
12 years ago

it all ,If you are new in the school then go ahead..but if youve been there forever and everyone thing your straight (because you never told them you´re gay) then Telling them now will be the worst decisions you will ever make.

12 years ago

This depends on the school. If a school has a well-established and well-enforced ant-bullying policy, then coming Out while a student might not be as traumatic as at a school where GLBT students are not protected and are subject to harassment and bullying. I do not think there is one answer for all in-the-closet students. Each one needs to evaluate their own feelings, their own sensitivities and vulnerabilities. the environment at their school and the situation with their own family before making a decision about coming Out. I've know quite a few gays who waited until they were in college before discussing it with their family. Some had good results and some did not. Far too many variables to offer a one-size-fits-all approach.

12 years ago

i haven't got the balls to do that yet i mean, 3 of my close friends know but my family and other people dont know. How do i over come that and tell them? I dont want my family to dis own me just because im gay. Please message me back some feed back lol

bensmithy
bensmithy
12 years ago

I would have never done that at school IMO that's the worse place you could choose to comeout even telling one friend it wont remain a secret for long... school is harsh at the best of times no need to give people more ammo.