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sooboy Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 412 views 5 comments
<p>Ok heres my question, this past weekend after hearing from some friends how great it is to experience a little pain before sex or before climax we decided to try it. Keep in mind this is all new to us but we thought we had the basics down. I was lightly restrained, nothing I couldn't get out of if needed and Jordan was in charge. I have to admit I was pretty excited about trying something new and was obviously aroused. After a few taps to the balls and a clothespin on my penis that was gone so was my erection and any interest in going any further. We were both kind of dissapointed.</p>
<p>Did we try too much to fast or is this just maybe not for me? What have you folks with more experience have to say?</p>

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9 years ago

ball bashing? no wonder you lost it. good advice from the illusion.

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
9 years ago

Some guys are into pain, I think most are not. Trying new things is cool, sounds like you may want to try something different. Theillusion had a good suggestion, try edging!

9 years ago

I've had limited experience but I have had some. I find that Simply incorporating a little pain play into mind action foreplay, something like getting each other all worked up then adding some light bondage, getting things hot again and then add the pain before the pleasure. Nothing too much too fast, slow edging then speed up and as he gets closer you squeeze his balls a little, not too much then slow the stroking. Rinse and repeat until he's begging to cum. At which point you make the deal that he only gets to cum as long as he can get you off with only using his mouth. Fun for all and adds that little but of kink. No need to jumps straight to ball bashing or getting the whips and paddles out :P a little bit of spice if needed isn't a bad thing, new things are always fun to try.

9 years ago

Personally, I have no interest in that sort of approach to sex. I know there are plenty of guys who love it, and that is fine with me for them. I'm the kind who wants both guys to want to make sure the other one has the best possible experience, and without pain.