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title a serious questio about coming out take two

Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 290 views 3 comments
I have tried to tell some of my friends various times but it have never managed to say it really what i am asking iguess is should ijust tell the or should is this a bad way to do it i am hoping that as people who already know that i am gay you can guide my toward the right path iam sorry I this sounds whiny or you have heard this a thousand times beforeto any one who reads this thanks i just needed this to be heard end barrage of verbiage

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darkknightreturns
darkknightreturns
9 years ago

what is the pressure to come out to friends? do you know how they would react. is it worth possibly losing them as a friend. Take your time slow down and wait until YOU feel its right for YOU! ok hugz Ron xoxo

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
9 years ago

It definitely depends on what each friend is like. If you know that a friend is "gay-friendly" it's not a problem. If you have friends who don't like gays, you need to decide if you want to keep them as friends, even though they don't know the real you.

9 years ago

Without knowing anything about those friends of yours who you want to come Out to, it is hard to give you good advice. If it were me, I'd talk one-on-one with each friend and, hopefully, see how each conversation goes, and make adjustments in how you present yourself based on that. If it were me, I'd try starting with, "Are we really friends?" If you get an affirmative, followed by, "No matter what?"