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Typical Gay

Nex Blog Last Activity 12 years ago 1.7K views 18 comments
There are a lot of gay teen boys in the world, some you can know beacuse of clothes, the way like move or even talk but others, like me, you can’t know unless you ask me because I just are a normal teen boy with the preference in boys. So who are you, a typical or no-typical gay teen boy?

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trymebry
12 years ago

im not typical but probably normal for most teens no one knows im gay but me yea kinda sad to keep such a secret and hide

chris512
12 years ago

I'd have to go with non typical and I agree completely with theillusion. The things that come out of my friends and families mouth about gays make me feel like I'll never come out. I've told only 1 of my friends but he doesn't really believe me.

northhunter
12 years ago

I was very, very nontypical. I played football, hunted and went out with girls with my friends. Especially my best friend, we double dated a lot. I was too afraid to approach him and let him in on the secret that I had a huge crush on him. Even today I think sometimes about telling him but I'm afraid he'd break off all contact with me, he is very much a homophobe.

just4today
12 years ago

Probably not typical in that sense of the word. Don't have speach or manerisms, dress "normal." Haven't had any guys think I was gay until I told them. But girls are another thing. A lot said they figured I was, or was at least bi, because they said I was "more sensative and caring" ((whatever that means?)) than most other guys. I don't think I am really, just more in touch and comfortable with who I really am without playing all the head games with myself. I've had some really gr8 friends and sexual experiences so far with boys and girls and I think that helped a lot!

just4today
12 years ago

Probably not typical in that sense of the word. Don't have speach or manerisms, dress "normal." Haven't had any guys think I was gay until I told them. But girls are another thing. A lot said they figured I was, or was at least bi, because they said I was "more sensative and caring" ((whatever that means?)) than most other guys. I don't think I am really, just more in touch and comfortable with who I really am without playing all the head games with myself. I've had some really gr8 friends and sexual experiences so far with boys and girls and I think that helped a lot!

zircon20111
12 years ago

I'm not typical, because I am gay for only six years ago there who may think I'm gay.

12 years ago

i tell them and dont care what they think it a case of i am hear and gay and i love it

tone25
12 years ago

A typical.. but i wear normal cloths and act str8t too. i wish that i dont have to hide it..

wildkid20
12 years ago

non typical. Im bi and mostly stick to girls but have been with a couple of boys

12 years ago

Completely straight acting, but i guess most bi people are?

12 years ago

Completely straight acting, but i guess most bi people are?

12 years ago

You'll never know even if you asked me. I am only sexually attracted to boys (dicks, ass), but i'm fully (romantically and sexually) attracted to girls. I'm not seeking romantic relationships with boys, only girls. It's like if someone has an embarrassing fetish, you don't want anyone to know.

1antoniomac
12 years ago

im not typical but people keep telling me i look like i like fat chicks if only they knew how wrong they was

lol101
12 years ago

im none typical. its very hard to see unless im tlk to, and if u gt to know me

otherwise u cnt tell

12 years ago

i don't have any of the "gay stereotypical mannerisms", I don't "flaunt" my sexuality as some people say about gay people (i hate people who say that).

And tbh sometimes I'm happy that people can't tell I'm gay because its only then u see how people actually think about gays(When they think they aren't in the company of any gay guys)

As most Non-stereotypical gay teens will know, it feels horrible when u see your closest friends say such nasty things about something that you know you are yourself and then expect u to join in on their gay jokes and all that shit, then there is the constant questioning at school from ur guy friends asking why did u turn down this girl and that girl when they asked you out.
So yeh I'm glad (to an extent) that people don't automatically assume I'm gay.
But with that comes the homophobic banter from "friends", the awkward situation with girls and a list of other awkward shit.

BUT I'm happy with my life, i truly am.
It could be 100 times worse and because i know this, I'm truly grateful for how my life is.
No bullying, No hate and I'm in the fortunate position to see how others truly feel about people like me.

jstevens
12 years ago

non typical. I have to tell people which is harder. I suppose if a typical gay boy came out people would have already known its harder for us really :/