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How to tell him NO nicely

1antoniomac Blog Last Activity 12 years ago 706 views 3 comments
ok heres the story this guy i know wants to be with me but i dont like him that way im trying not to tell him that i can do better than him cause that would hurt his feeling but he keep asking and begging (when your begging for sex you need help) how do i tell him no nicely?

P.S i've already said NO like a million times so its not going to be that simple

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12 years ago

Be honest with him, that hurts less in the long run. Tell him that you don't want a be his bf, that you don't want to have sex with him. I know it is very difficult, you always want to be nice to another person but you hurt yourself and him more by not straight forward towards him. Once I was very much in love with a friend. He wanted to be together but I wanted more, a relationship. One night we went out to dinner to talk it over. I was so happy afterwards, I thought we had started a relationship. After the restaurant we want to a gay disco. within 2 hours he had picked up this other gay and left with him. I was so hurt, why didn't he just tell me NO straight in my face?

chazatlas
chazatlas
12 years ago

Just tell him that right now you are just not in the mindset of fooling around with him. Tell him you are friends and right now you want to leave it at that. Tell him one day you might change your mind but you don't know if or when that might be. Then tell him that him constantly asking you to hook up is putting you in an uncomfortable position and that if he continues to do so, you will have no choice but to put a hold on your friendship.

If he can't handle that then you just may need to phase this dude out as a friend anyway. Good luck!

northhunter
northhunter
12 years ago

Yes that is an uncomfortable situation. When I was in my mid 20's a guy around 30 who I ended up drinking with after my friends left began suggesting things. He then basically begged me to let him suck me off. He said I didn't have to do anything just lay there for a little while, he even suggested I could cover my head so I wouldn't have to see it happening. He had no idea I was gay or bisexual he just really wanted to give someone a BJ. I finally got through to him that it just wasn't going to happen, at least not with me. A year or so later he was arrested and charged with soliciting underage boys for immoral activity I think it was. Only time I was ever begged to let someone suck my dick, very strange experience.