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gayallday Blog Last Activity 10 years ago 587 views 16 comments
<p>so my boyfriend and I just celebrated a month together!. this is great and I love cuddleing with him. However i am wondering when do i make a move. we have made out and have felt eachother up above the waist. I asked him how far he is comfortable taking our relationship and he said he would rather not say. I am up to any suggestions.

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10 years ago

Well your golden wedding anniversary will be in 49 years and 11 months time ..good luck!

10 years ago

Dont warry, take your time, and give him time too... Sex will come by its own, i think :P

gayallday
gayallday
10 years ago

lol thanks guys

10 years ago

have him over for a sleep over and show him what he has been missing ;) hugz paparon xoxo

gayallday
gayallday
10 years ago

I told him its fine if we go slow. we have made out

10 years ago

Me and my BF have lived together a little over a year now and we have known each other for almost 2. We were friends for several months before we knew each other were gay, after we found out and decided to give dating a go we had a discussion of how things were different in our relationship and both agreed to take it very slow and not rush anything so we put off sex for a long time, nearly 24 hours LOL. To be totally serious though, it will happen in its own time, push the envelop a little but very gently and when its right you will find it will just happen, just enjoy the relationship and try not to dwell on whether your going to fast or to slow, you will both move at your own speed and it will go where it is natural for it to go. Most importantly don't force anything upon him our yourself, the relationship is FAR more important than the act of sex.

10 years ago

has the thought occurred maybe he has never done it before? always let him know you would not do anything he is not comfortable with. one step at a time. and also that just because you do something to him, make sure he knows he does not have to reciprocate.

10 years ago

How sweet and charming!Very old fashioned. Have you kissed him yet? lol ;)

10 years ago

grow up

gayallday
gayallday
10 years ago

it went well. he is a bit shy. he let me feel his cock through his jeans

JohnnyBoy20012
JohnnyBoy20012
10 years ago

Well go at the speed you both are comfortable with my 1st bf had our first bj after 6 months but my 2nd was like 2 weeks so just go at the speed you both feel comfortable with.

10 years ago

Oh nick you are incorrigible! Also shag has more class than the "F" word. lol ;)

10 years ago

Do you mean it has been a whole month and you haven't shagged him yet? jeepers - what is wrong with you? lol (give him one tonight!)

10 years ago

I second what @vegas said. He doesn't want to talk about it. Actions speak louder than words. It's up to you to find out what his limits are. When (if) you reach his limits then you'll have to decide how to proceed. Your instincts are a pretty good thing to let guide your actions. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. Good luck. Keep us posted if you like! lol ;)

onlyinvegas
onlyinvegas
10 years ago

just keep going until he says no....he may be just a bit submissive and wants you to take control