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Have you ever done it without condom? Bareback? How was it? Did you have any (bad) consequences afterwards?
<p>A lot of the videos I see here shows bareback sex (anal and oral) and rimming, but there's a lot of std's out there, and even though I want to, I'm kinda scared of doing all these stuff (I'm a virgin, have no experience at all). I need some advice, some orientation...</p>
<p>Thanks ;)</p>
<p>Thanks ;)</p>
I'll tell you a story though. In London I knew a 20 year old boy who worked in a gay bar. To say he was beautiful is a massive understatement. He had that perfect boyishness even into his 20s, androgyny that was more about his playfulness than genuine campness, which was always a running joke he played with more than anything else. It wasn't just 'oh yeah you're young and slim so you're cute': he was honestly breathtaking. And he was interesting, intelligent, and above all, a really kind soul with a biting edge to him. I'd never met anyone like him.
But he'd messed up his life. Carried away on drugs once he'd had unprotected anal with two men and by the age of 19 had HIV. When he should have been blossoming, loving and enjoying the benefit of all he had to offer, everything was a shadow over his head.
I got to know him fairly well and it always broke my heart how his natural cheekiness, loveliness and intelligence were rendered embittered by what had happened, for which he knew he had only himself to blame.
Follow swiftjohn's advice and make yourself a firm rule. Only have unprotected anal sex with someone you utterly trust to your core and even then pay attention to what's going on around you.
Sex is much better with someone you are in love with.