prettyangelboi's Blogs

My body, my choice

prettyangelboi Blog Last Activity 9 years ago 645 views 11 comments
<p>I really dislike the stereotype that all boys who are feminine must like anal sex.<br /><br />For me, anal penetration of any kind is a major turn off. I don't consider my butt to be analogous to a "boy pussy", I don't insert dildos into my butt, and I don't take photos of my gaping butt hole. I'm a male and my anus is the same organ that females have. I use it for excreting bowels into a toilet, and that is all. I will not bend over and take it in the rear, and I'm not a sissy that is "asking for it".<br /><br />Just because my sexual interests don't align with popular imagery of gay boys in porn, doesn't mean it's weird or wrong. I have been raped before, so I think know exactly what I want and what I don't want. I hope people can finally learn to respect my body and my wishes without degrading me because I don't conform to a stereotype of homosexuality.<br /><br /><strong>Fact: You can be gay or bi and not enjoy anal sex whatsoever. No excuses or explanations required.</strong></p>

Comments

You must be logged in to post comments, please login or signup (free)
letsGO
letsGO
9 years ago

it's your body your choice, and don't let anyone force you to do anything you don't want...my ass is still virgin and I'm proud of that!!!!!!

darkknightreturns
darkknightreturns
9 years ago

just be you! you aren't required to live up to anyone else's expectations, although there are some in this world who think you are lol! be you baby! hugz Ron xoxo

dannyboyuk
dannyboyuk
9 years ago

i totally agree with you guys... it always bugs me when i chat online to other gay boys, and the first thing they wanna know is if I'm a top or bottom...as if those are the only two choices.

Its kind of resorting to a hetrosexual role, with the macho one giving and the girly one taking. - Well I'm gay, I don't give or take, and it's never stopped me having hot gay sex with other gay boys.


9 years ago

i try not too judge, but sometimes you meet someone who is a flaming gay and you see through that most of it is an act to seek attention. as to your preference, i once had a chat buddy who didn't care for oral sex at all, especially cum. i said, how can you be gay? but he preferred intercourse only.

JustinThyme
JustinThyme
9 years ago

Beautifull elicidated!!!! That kind of stereotype is as much bigotry as any other kind. Well-said, buddy.

nate88
nate88
9 years ago

AGREE!!!

9 years ago

Stereotyping of any kind is wrong, bottom line!!! No pun intended :)

9 years ago

I agree with the other commenters. Well said Pretty Angle Boi. The idea that guys who behave in ways considered 'unmasculine' are also sexually passive and specifically want to get screwed is pervasive in both the straight and gay communities. Yet clearly there are no grounds for it other than stereotyped thinking. Regarding guys who are 'feminine' or 'masculine', I've always thought that uber-ape-like-masculinity is in fact very unmasculine, because it shows a male acting how he thinks he's supposed to act, without the bravey to be himself. Guys who just act how they feel - with masculine and feminine aspects of themselves mixed and played with - seem to me to actually be more ballsy, and thus more masculine in the deeper sense, although even that characterisation is wrong because women can be plenty brave. I'll also chime in and say that even though anal sex is something I've done, it definitely is never my main port of call. So many people think gay sex is all about fucking, or maybe sucking, because they fail to see how erotic and wide-ranging it can actually be.

gm4yngr
gm4yngr
9 years ago

It is an unfair stereotype that all gays like anal. I am not into anal at all. Maybe I am more of a g0y, for those who don't know what that is, Google it. That is g0y with a zero in the middle, some gays think that g0ys are really gays in denial, they often think that bi people are also in denial. I don't mind being labeled as gay, as long as it doesn't mean that I must enjoy anal.

Davey1965
Davey1965
9 years ago

Good comments I guess it is a stereo type that Feminine Guys must be a bottom..