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Recently discovered with my partner that I wasn't happy just saying 'I love you'. That seemed so cliche. I've begun to tell him specifically what I like about him. Makes it more meaningful. I also love this website. There's a perfect combination of warmth, affection and support on the one hand, and the raunchiest raunch of honest conversations about sex on the other. It's what makes it one of the best gay websites on our little blue planet. So just wanted to say that here's what I specifically love about you guys: the warmth, friendliness, intelligence, playfulness, real emotion, creativity, class, style, great sense of humor, the willingness to extend real heart to anyone who needs it, the fiery emotions that sometimes cause a bit of argument along with a broadness of spirit that never holds grudges about those arguments; the willingness to talk and share the human experience; the great sense of openness about forms of pleasure and desire; the huge variety of aesthetic senses and ways of being in the world, all somehow just easily mingling and celebrating each other; the bravery of being who you are and allowing others to do the same; the sheer cheekiness and wit on display, always such a joy and often such a hysterical laugh to read; the way you all combine to create a kind of internet home for gay guys, no matter how they come here, to feel welcomed and supported - especially when you consider how so many gay sites don't offer that at all and so much of the internet is about nastiness, not warmth and support; the passion - there's just so much passion here, it's so human and awesome...... I've even come to love the way this website is all creaky floors and leaky faucets in the technical sense: somehow both annoying and charming at the same time. Anyway, love you all so much and wishing you all the best for 2015. Thanks so much for this little internet home, which I treasure. xo Brae