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DO PEOPLE GET OVER BREAKING UP DIFFERNTLY?
This is my first break up with anyone. I never really had a bf just like date and stuff. We had a great two years and all the sudden it just was not the same any more. it was like we both just knew it was time to break up. The thing is I am not ready to see anyone or date. I saw him last night being happy with a guy. Do you think he is upset at all like I am or do some people take it easier then others. I am very confused. I am glad I am meeting people here that seem like they really do want to talk about it with me. I think that is very nice and I want to say thank you to them for that.
Some people take breaks ups differently. If you saw him happy with another guy he might of not had feelings for you so he was glad to get out of it and try something new. I think you should just take your time and if someone comes into your life it be least expected which is amazing. Especially how I meet my boyfriend it was least expected and so random.
shear did a song is there life after love. you may move on but you will never forget him.
I am of the thinking that If you have a brake up, unless they have killed a family member stole all your money or give you a disease that there is no cure for. Always thx the person for the time you shared with each other. somewhere in the happy and not so happy you had someone in your arms to hold and love
I think you are lucky to have had a bf, I've never had anyone love me the way I would love them (never had a bf)
it's called kissing frogs. so many frogs....so little princes. and yes, we are all different
don't give up
Good thoughts below. As @marauder78 says we are all different. And how we process life and love is different for each of us. Don't compare how you feel to anyone else, process your grief and loss in your own way and at your own pace. And when the time is right, you will know it. It is hard seeing an ex move on. But as you said, you both knew it was time to move on from each other. So just be you. Find the joy in your day. Hugs
marauder78 summed it up very well. But he did not mention that your ex does probably still feel bad about the break-up too. I hope that you will feel better really soon.
Everyone experience love differently. no 2 people are the same on that subject. This means that breaking up is also different from person to person. Some can brush it away and move on with the next relationship, some have such intense feelings that moving on is very hard to do. This difference in love is also the most trilling thing in life, because we human are natural explorers, and exploring each others love is something most like to do.
Seeing the person you once loved with someone else can be hard, but can also be a motivation "to get back on the horse again" and continue with your own life. How people feel with seeing their ex-lover with someone else is also different, some are angry that they found happiness somewhere else and not with them, and some are happy to see that their ex have moved on and made a happy life again for them self's.