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Not into oral
Siting here watching porn, getting horny AF. My boyfriend is out in the living room, playing Minecraft. I would love to go out and surprise him with a blowjob but he's not into oral at all. Claims his cock goes numb and he can't get off from it. I have sucked off several other guys and they've always come. Anyone else experience someone who can't get off with a blowjob or you yourself can't get off that way? I find it very strange and it kills me sometimes because I LOVE giving head. He can't get off on handjobs either, so it's either I fuck him and he jerks off or he fucks me. Which is great but sometimes I just want to suck him off.Â
if he can jerk himself off, he doesn't go numb when you touch it. it's all mental. make-out and get him turned on big time first. lick him, nipples, stomach, thighs, neck. get him hot. tease him playing and licking around his cock, his balls, his gooch, maybe even rim. another try might involve lubing your fingers and finger his ass while you suck him. aim for the prostate and rub it.
Everybody feels different. It might because he is circumcised, sometimes some nerve endings did not connect the right way on healing and desensitize the glans too much. I experienced that on myself, i love to be sucked but i had it hard to cum and handjobs need a lot of time, most times i had to finish myself. Sometimes i even don't feel if someone suck me and i have to look if he has started and it helps to see someone is sucking me, the brain does it part on sex. It also helps by massage the shaft with the lips more than just licking the glans. I like circed guys and i'm pro circ but it might result in this. If he is not cut i don't know why but love finds a way to enjoy each other. Maybe a blowjob could be some kind of foreplay for him before he starts to fuck. I know a guy who has also problems cumming by sucking even he likes it, so it's not as rare as you think. You can also try to watch porn he likes together while you suck him or to stimulate him anal with your finger. I love to suck others but i also wish to find someone who sucks me the right way because i'm no so much in anal.
Have been giving and getting head and blow jobs since I was 14...(now 21)....and NEVER ran into that problem. Â But everyone has his own psyche and set of experiences. Â Enjoy the good with him.Â
im the same way it is very rare that i can cum by someone giving me a blow job they for sure have to deep throat my cock in order for me to cum and well although this won't well be liked however most of the times i have cum getting a blow job was from a nice hot teen :) :) and yes most of them have been legal age of consent in nc. and i am not much of a top either i am the one that likes to be fucked. and to give head i have been told by many that i give great head :) :) :) and yes i swallow don't waste a drop and i also 99.9% of the time go bareback :) :) :)Â
We're all different in one way or the other. Â I'd say that if you really care about him, and he really cares about you, enjoy what you two do have together and don't fret about what you don't have.Â