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Think about someone else during sex?!

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What does it mean when we think about someone else while we’re having sex with our partner?

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bqhickory
7 years ago

oh yea i have done that many times with different lovers lol 

7 years ago

It means you are not fully committed.

7 years ago

fantasizing during sex can be ok occasionally. if it becomes a habit, there may be something in your relationship where you are loosing interest. chances are your partner can tell. find someone you can talk too. examine your relationship. 


 

7 years ago

Basically, that we'd rather be doing it with that someone else, at least at that moment. I think there might have been research I recall reading about once, on straight couples, which revealed fantasizing about someone else is not uncommon, for both men and women. The jist of it was that such fantasizing - even the middle of sex - doesn't spell automatic doom for a relationship. It might be a way of processing a temporary infatuation, and not necessarily a sign you don't love your partner or that they don't satisfy you most of the time.