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My thought provoking blog question for today.

Blog Last Activity 6 years ago 499 views 14 comments

When you are having a sexual encounter ( that means you're getting laid, ) are you all about your own pleasure or are you all about pleasuring your partner?

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6 years ago

I'm not going to lie, it's all about me. My goal is for my pleasure and if my boyfriend has a good time then that is an added bonus. I want to have that special spot poked over and over and over during sex or I want my dick to have the right pressure from my guys ass to help me reach maxim pleasure before I bust a nutt deep in is ass. If it's oral I want to have my cock sucked to maximum hardness and my balls to maximum full of cum then when its time to explode I want to thrust it to the back of the guys throat so it shoots down his throat and so he can feel the head of my cock throb. If I am sucking cock I want to take it all so I can feel it hit the back of my throat or slide way down my throat deep. And when my guy shoots I want him to tap me on the back of the head so I can deep throat him and take his huge load all the way down like I'm swallowing a milkshake from a straw. Foreplay is nice also but it's all about me and me reaching maximum horny range so during oral or sex I am at my best.

jrstod
6 years ago

I like to help my partner have his orgasm first and make sure he is having a great time.  If we cum together that's wonderful too but I like taking care of my sexual partner.  The more I can hear him gasping for breathe or moaning the better.

6 years ago

Both of us should be sexually satisfied. If not, it is a one way street. If a person just wants to get off, they need to masturbate. Then there is no need to worry about another persons satisfaction.

ArtemisG
6 years ago

Since I am a veritable minute man, I always make sure that my partner orgasms first. If I orgasm first, it's "show's over"... I've only been with one person that I could've kept going after climaxing, but sadly, that was not meant to last.

LouLou58
6 years ago

I love to please them first.

dreeke23
6 years ago

.........MIND YOUR ONLY BEEZWAX........

6 years ago

Wow I never expected the variation in answers. I myself find that I get more pleasure from bringing my partner to the point of sexual exhaustion. Male or female once they say ok thats it I dont have one more cum left in me then I usually let go. With women if I cant get 4 or 5 orgasms out of them I feel I have failed with men usually 2 or 3 is the norm. With couples who knows by morning we are just all sticky sweaty and tired.


J 

6 years ago

I really love to pleasure the one I'm with, but that doesn't mean my pleasure isn't important to me, and if my pleasure is  not impotant to my partner... well, . In most cases that hasn't been a problem, actually only one time did my partner not seem interested in my pleasure and it was a huge turn off for me. as a resault we never went out again.

6 years ago

Well, I really need to go take my hand for a massage. I've been so inconsiderate

bqhickory
6 years ago

i always make sure the person i am having sex with not only gets off however enjoys it a whole lot as well :) :) 

6 years ago

Nothing is hotter than my partner getting pleased and going crazy. 

6 years ago

No - it's all about me! me! me! - and what I want ;)

6 years ago

always on my partner. me providing his greatest pleasure drives me wild! unless i'm haviing sex alone.