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love? need some advice please.
i have a dilemma i am in love with someone and they are in love with a woman? stupid huh? she treats him like shit all the time.
the funny thing is he really likes to get head and rimmed.. we have such a good time together.
the problem i have is i was asked to be his best man tonight.. i guess i am confused. or maybe he is. advice please
Run as fast and as far away from them as you cam it is emotional quicksand and do not have a sexual affair with a man just married. Change your number and change your name buy a new car dye your hair. You are BEGGING for a huge 3 person clusterfuck I promise you. These guys who want it both ways will NEVER pick one you have to leave and he will say bye bye.
Be his Best Man and then be there for him.
You'll like it when he comes over for head and stuff.
............TRY ANOTHER ROLLERCOASTER.............
Hey Red,
I was in exactly the same boat. My 'str8' friend (we had been doing sexual stuff since we both were like 15, but he always emphasized that he was not even slightly bisexual lol) met a girl eventually when we were like 26. They got married (guess who their best man was) and had a boy (my godchild). He died of cancer in 2012, but I'm still in close contact to both his wife and son. Through all these years he'd often call in to play with me. I could tell by the number of visits how well their marriage went (not well). Our sexual relationship grew all the time. He would even do things he would never have tried in the beginning (swallow my cum, let me fuck him, rim me, etc.). We never exchanged kisses, but we did everything else. Looking back I guess I did the right thing. I ndid not tell him I loved him, I guess I would have lost him if I had. Instead, I took what he was willing to give me, which, quite frankly, was a lot. I am sure he knew I loved him, and I think he loved me too - in his own way. It was all good, and I will always cherish the time we spent together.
Not sure this was helpful for you. All the best, my friend.
it takes some guys time to question their sexual orientation. If he has family pressure to get married or is a jock you have to slowly bring them around. You are half way there There last half requires patience. If you can get him to a gay bar he will see just how many gay guys there are he won't think gays are non-existent. I only date straight guys but I have a lot to offer I am the best baseball player on the team and nationally ranked. I used to model and straight guys like how I look. I am 100% jock. I date baseball players a lot. I just can not be faithful. I don't cheat with 1 boy I fuck like 6 baseball players they get fed up and dump me. Use the gay bar to let him see just how many gay guys there really are, that has always worked for me everyone is amazed at how many guys are at gay bars works everytime. Go on a weekend About 9 PM. Can you let me know if this sounds like a good idea and if so how it works. If you can move him the next step is for him to say you are his boyfriend then dump the bitch
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