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What do you all think of my response to someone here who is new to this site and asking about it?    Please share your thoughts and be both reasonable and respectful.    I think it would be good for us all to review and discuss both for my sake and everyone's, eh.    

Here it is:

"Pst! You've got it better than me! I have no one to be involved with at all (outside of family and no incest for me as far as I'm concerned!). I like and pray that things will change for the better for me but I also live in the Bible Belt so who really knows? AS far as being involved physically with anyone I just want to make sure I don't get hurt or a disease to be more exact. I think and believe that sex and this website as well (and I have been vocal about it through posts and private messages) should be about love and respect. Never abuse as in violence (or rape) towards oneself or others. To me that's straight forward but apparently there are times people don't realize it and the moderator seems to do a pretty good job keeping it off the pages. That's sort of the genuine gist as well as to try and get along with folks here as there are so few of us compared to the rest of the straight people in the world. History has genuinely not been kind to gays and people of this interest so please keep that in mind and maybe keep the website on the down low as much as possible in my honest opinion. We never know what the future holds. Hopefully things will be fine but it is best to be careful and prepared for the worst.

Lol. Wow. I did not mean to ramble or bring you and the conversation down! This place is phenomenal and it seems like there are many VERY nice people here. The photos and videos are beyond reproach and are the absolute epitome of human beauty in the male form! All people are welcomed as far as I know but I'm pretty sure this website is genuinely visited and active by and with only guys. Smooth twinks are the predominate preference thank God as I personally would have that no other way. I personally would not take too much too serious as this place is kind of goofy and people like to be and encourage happiness! Who'da thought and thunk, huh? :) To me that just makes sense and should be obvious for a community to both get along, strive, and survive. (Not that apparently there haven't been any problems but things as far as I know for most folks gets better if there are any issues.)

P.S.: People obviously have wildly different views on sex, sexuality, and or what have you but I personally have come to opinion that whether people realize it or not or admit to it everyone are actually bisexual. So in that sense I do think people choose both their interest and behavior. With that said there is no question that preferences exist but one thing I have learned (in my case with porn) over the last twenty years is that there are sometimes people you think are gay but they are not and then there are those who are that you had nooooo idea were or are! Lol. Have fun and I hope you have a great day! :)

P.S. again (However you do that!): As far as how long I have personally been coming here I was coming as a viewer and visitor for years before I became a member. I was here from about the beginning which was one year after it started which also was one year after YouTube.com began as a matter of fact. To me this is the best place on Earth and hope it remains so great for generations to come..."

Am I accurate in my thoughts in description of the place and information concerning it?