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Are any of you shy?

ZanyZander Blog Last Activity 3 years ago 281 views 7 comments

Are any of you shy?    If not were you in the past?    How or why did you change if you did?     Did you ever become MORE reserved than perhaps you were in your past initially?    

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anuu
3 years ago

Yep. More so in my younger years and still somewhat to this day. I've learned to work my way around it. I can do a speaking engagment in front of 50 people from 6th graders to adult groups and the butterflies, anxiety and shyness are gone in under 5 seconds. I am the one speaking, it's my talk and so I am the one in control. When it comes to sex I usually let the other guy make the first move or insinuation.

lhard1469
3 years ago

when i was young and into my teen years and until i was 20 maybe 21--i wasnt shy or nervous about  people seeing me--it wasnt until after i moved that i began to shy back and be more careful about things--dont know why--but the younger years seemed much more fun

guynflint
3 years ago

i have never been an exhibitionist. private showing only. doesn't make me shy. just decent?

Bendy
3 years ago

Not now, but I was when I was younger, and I had a stammer.


Everything changed for me when I joined the Merchant Navy. I was a 2nd Electrical Officer on UK flag ships. After a while my stammer stopped and I grew in confidence. 


Another big change in my life came when I started working on oil rigs as an electrical technician. I became a Team Leader and that boosted my confidence and ego, and the pay was incredible. 


 


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