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I love this site...but I don't get it
I love all the wonderful pics and videos I find on this site, but there are some things I don't get about it. In particular, I don't get how the "community" here works. Why do people post on my wall? I don't mind and I've received a bunch of nice pics that way, but why me? Why post pics on my wall instead of just putting them in an album where people will be more likely to find them? Should I be posting stuff on other people's walls? Whose walls should I be posting on? I don't understand the protocol or etiquette, and this site doesn't seem to contain a FAQ or other helpful information.
Why do I get occasional emails and friend requests? Again, I don't mind, but why do people want to connect with me when I don't post anything? How do they even find my profile?
If anyone actually sees this blog post and can answer these questions, please explain it to me. (I'm very curious to see if I get a response.)
Lastly, to anyone who sees this, whoever you are, wherever you are, whatever you are doing, I hope you have a wonderful day.
That's the whole Idea of the site, to connect with people and post pics on each others walls.
Wow, 269 views and 7 comments in less than 24 hours. I don't get as many responses in most forums I visit. I still don't quite understand how you all found me and saw my blog post, but thanks for reading it--special thanks to everyone who replied, and extra special thanks to HitachiMi for being the first to reply and providing the most informative reply.
I'll accept friend requests from people who have something in their profile that suggests they are a real person with similar interests. I don't expect to really make new friends here, but I'm open to it. Of course, anyone who really wants to get to know me (it hasn't happened yet) will need to put some effort into it, beginning with starting a conversation, being patient when I'm slow to reply, and being accepting and understanding if I'm not interested.
I don't mind people posting pics on my wall. Many of them are good and I might not have seen them otherwise, but I still don't quite get why people do it. Why not just put the pics in an album where more people will see them? I find some of the best pics on other people's walls, but they would have been easier to find if they were organized into an album.
I still feel like I'm missing something, but it doesn't really matter. Thanks for "listening" and feel free to add to the conversation if you have any additional insights.
Same here. I don't need any *pretend* friends in my life. Go away!
I don't accept "friends" STOP I even write it in 3 languages in my 'About Me'. After all, who wants to make a friend of someone they know nothing about? Therefore they must have read it. Friend applications waste time I haven't got.
If you want a picture from me, post one on my wall and I'll return one without obligation on either side. If you like it, you might post another one on my wall. If you dislike it, delete it. I probably won't even notice. Simples.
Same thing happened when I first came here weeks ago. I got lots of friend requests. So, I accepted them all. But, then nothing but pics on my wall. I removed them later as I don't know any of them and they said practicly nothing to me. I put some stuff on my wall, little even saw it. Since I dumped the friends list, I get nada. It gets pretty boring, even in these blogs. I guess ppl are just out there fappin and not much else, cept the weirdo old farts who bitch and complain...
The people posting on your wall are saying hello and semi introducing themselves. This site is different as there is an active community here due to the blog. Some folks just come for porn and don't bother with others. Then there are others who like to make new friends although that can be misleading too. Some folks who friend you may never contact you again and then there are others who are interested in the new guy. They probably found you in the community section under new member section. If you're a private person here for just the porn you can just ignore the posts and messages. You can also post on your page you're not here for friendship.