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<p>A musical interlude, for those so inclinded. And no, the song isn't about necrophilia. For those of you too young to remember, it's about Aids in the 80s, and losing those you love and that are dear to you.</p> <p>http://youtu.be/882bHckYMcQ</p> <p><img src="http://i.imgur.com/xqUJm7k.jpg" alt="" width="500" height="638" /></p>

<p>When Gay Liberation was kicking off in the late 1960s, non-conformity to heteronormative traits - marriage and monogamy being two of them - was part of the culture. This was a culture of freedom, of youth, and of possibilities. "Growing up" and getting married didn't fit into that very well.</p> <p>In the lead up to my wedding, I'd started to realise there was a certain adolescence I was letting go of. What I didn't quite comprehended, until I thought that older gentleman's comment through, was that such an adolescence isn't something a lot of gay men want to let of go of.</p> <p>Nor do they have to. Our culture permits - even encourages - an eternal Peter Pan syndrome whereby we can choose to remain young and free at heart. And we do the best we can to keep our physicality in such a state too.</p> <p>I'm not the first to call this the "gaydolescence", but this isn't a common term. I can't speak for the rest of the LGBT spectrum, but for gay men, we're allowed a much longer lease on youth than our straight counterparts.</p> <p>Until marriage equality came around, gay men were relieved of the pressures of having to couple up, move to a nice suburban neighbourhood, and spawn children to carry on the cycle.</p> <p>For the most part, the gaydolescence comes from being denied a legitimate adolescence in our teenage years. Even gay teens who grow up in the most liberal of environments have a good few years of finding out who they are. For those that aren't so lucky, the years 13 through to 18, and often beyond, are riddled with confusion and isolation (past the appreciation of most heterosexual coming-of-age experiences).</p> <p>The consequence of this is often young gay men don't partake - and actively distance themselves - from the adolescent experiences of teenage love, sex, even good friendships. Both implicitly via societal norms and explicitly by schoolyard bullies, gay teenagers are more likely to miss out almost entirely on the education of adolescence. They're perennially relegated to the sidelines as observers, shallow stereotypes, and outcasts.</p> <p>While usually there are others to blame for this (like the aforementioned bullies), gay men only realise in later years that the onus was on them to have a proper adolescence, and we built up protective barriers of our own which prevented it. The fall out effect of this becomes apparent when we accept who we are, at 18, 22, or sometimes 30 or older, and then we become 16 year old boys all over again.</p> <p>Sex drives ramp up. We join a party culture that doesn't stop for anything. We date around and finally get the sexual education we missed out on (and then some).</p> <p>It's obvious that gaydolescence extends to some gay mens' physical appearance, too. Buffed up from the gym like the athletes we wanted to be in high school, we're finally able to enjoy the prime years of ultimate fitness and boysie banter we were once denied. We try to stop time in other ways as well; notably in our skincare and hair regimes, and our wardrobe choices. Only on gay men is it still acceptable to wear hi-tops and tank tops at 38.</p> <p>For some guys, the gaydolescence never really ends. Others might drag it out until their mid-40s when they realise a the benefits of a prolonged adolescence are no longer outweighed by the effort it takes. But for the gay men coupling up and getting married early-ish in life (myself included) our gaydolescence isn't even going to last into our 30s.</p> <p>My enduring gaydolescence may be over. But that's not to say I'm going to get fat. I'm not throwing out my tank tops, nor do I plan to stop having fun. I'm married, not dead, and there are some things I have now - things I never had as a teenager - that I'll never give up.</p> <p>

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Just want to thank our friends here on GBT for there Blogs and Videos.Thank you nick for making this site so good. God bless all of you

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He finally came out to his mother. But his father will not know for awhile. She is accepting of both of us. We told her everything. Dallas's mother and father are now separated. His father has moved out of the apartment. He was told to work on his anger issues, his drinking problems, and his hateful additude towards Dallas. 

Today I reached my 100 day anniversary on GBT and what a great time I've had.  Made some wonderful friends and enjoyed some hot moments in pics and vids.  Just want to thank everyone for making me feel at home :) 

Today marks 1900 Days for  Jesse ...Thanks Buddy for being a long time friend to some of us here..

everyone set for Christmas yet? 

i certainly am, got the turkey, the beer, the condoms, the lube......am i missing anything?

I think it's time to start Weekend Celebration! Do you agree? Cheers! Chúc mừng!

 

This is one topic which I believe has never been discussed on this site.  The desire to have sex with post mortem men is intriguing.  How many of you have ever contemplated having intercourse with a corpse?  Be honest.

 

I let my feelings about my sis, cloud my head regarding my place in this community, and I would like to apologise to you all, love, Scott

Masturbation is a useful way for  getting  sexual pleasure especially for those who  don’t have a partner for sex.Though it can’t give the same pleasure that we get from penetration, it helps to lessen the pressure you feel when you are horny and want  somebody for sex.It is during the teenage that we begin doing masturbation.Till then for  boys, penis is just for pissing.But during the teenage when one’s sexuality begins to take shape, one comes to recognize his penis as a medium for satisfying his sexual urge.As the pumping of blood into penis causes erection, one in his teens naturally has a curiosity to find out what it is.The erection of penis is a physical response to the sexual feelings.And teenage is a phase where sexual feelings are very high.A teenager gradually comes to know about the connection between sexual feelings and erection.The discharge of semen which happens in teenagers during sleeping at night and is known as nocturnal emission is a common phenomenon.This nocturnal emission happens because the semen which is produced as a result of sexual feelings needs a way to go out.Like a dam which is filled to its capacity and when its shutters are not opened, the water overflows.This is what happens in nocturnal emission also.This nocturnal emission is perplexing to a teenager who thinks it as some sign of health  problem.Once he understands the reason for semen discharge he can better manage it.And this management of semen discharge is done through masturbation.When a teenager masturbates for the first time, he does it out of curiosity.But as he  continues with masturbation, he finds it as the effective way to get relief from sexual pressure  and also an important source of sexual pleasure.After masturbation becomes a habit for him, he begins to bring  sexual images  to his mind to make masturbation more enjoying.Keeping up the tempo of masturbation, he concentrates on a particular sexual image which he likes the most.This is when he nears ejaculation.Then the ejaculation happens.The discharge of the semen gives him great relief from the build-up of sexual pressure.Thus for a  teenager masturbation  reveals to him  the first step of sexual enjoyment.In fact masturbation is a starter for the more wide and varied world of sexual acts where one finds sexual pleasure with a partner.Puritans consider masturbation a sin and describes it as self-defilement.They depict it as very damaging to the health of body.They consider semen as very valuable thing that shouldn’t be wasted by acts like masturbation.If semen is to be stored in the body, then why ejaculation happens? Ejaculation is there to discharge semen.What happens in nocturnal emission also is the discharge of semen.Therefore discharging semen by masturbation is not a damaging act.Masturbation is the enjoyment of sex in solitary which is purely a harmless act that prevents a person from becoming a sex aggressor due to suppressed sexuality.