I came out to my best friend about 2 months ago, we've been best friends since about 3rd grade. He didn't act really surprised so I figured that he'd probably guessed it already, tho he didn't say that exactly. He asked me why I was telling him now and I just said it's because I haven't come out to many people yet (actually only 1 person before him) and I thought I should tell it to my friends first. We talked about it some and he seemed like he was pretty ok with it.Â
Anyway I thought everything was ok and it seemed like it was, then about 3 weeks ago we were just hanging out and he asked me what kind of guys I thought were hot and I told him "guys like you except gay" and I laughed like it was a joke, but it wasn't really. Anyway things happened and he let me suck him off, which I liked a lot and I think he did too. But after that he started acting different around me. He hasn't said anything, but it's like he doesn't come over to my house anymore and when I talk to him it's like he's friendly, but not like he's still my best friend. He's always acting like he doesn't have time to hang out with me now. I want to tell him it's not like I expect him to have sex with me, because I know for sure he's straight, but I'm worried about even saying anything.
Im not sure what to do because I think it was a mistake to have sex with him that one time and I don't know what to say to him, mostly I just want him to keep being my friend like he's always been. So I'm just wondering if any guys here ever had sex with a straight friend and what happened and did you still be friends?